Work for it; earn it, and deserve it along with the benifts therein.
Bend for it; bribe for it and be haunted by the memories of its benefits instead of holding the flag of championing the assignment. Reality will humbly remind your conscious conscience about your shaming defeat.
We all are made happy by what we’ve worked hard for- in a legal systemized lawful acceptable way. It gets nicer with the many challenges that we’ve championed. Remember a say: “Easy come; easy go”?. But because it came no easier less than the respiratory process; goddamit the feeling is “yeaaaaahh”.
Gain it illegally and remain terrified. Not that you’d be arrested for it- but that where will your value and dignity stand as an individual. Embarrassment is normal among human-beings and it sure ain’t a good feeling. The outcomes are moral boosters or destroyer. Usually, destroyed morals are those whom are controlled and reliable on another external factors. These are morals who took the illegal path tryna bridge life. They’re never at liberty as they’re someone’s wrist pet. Think of blackmail, yeah right because someone did something in a negative way; such info is detrimental to the outcomes and the dignity let alone the respect.
Our gorgeous looking sisters are not that proud about looking slizzy as a result of compromising their souls through giving the sacred cookie. Hence doing it for such a transition is self demeaning and demoralizing. But the confidence in those who worked for that outfit their “Slay” is not as loud; but the smile and feel in their eyes is deeper than ooh Lawd; What’s that word!
Work for it or bribe for it then enslave yourself. You will be tossed as a coin; wait a predictable remote control even. My infants won’t celebrate me my success if I gained it through robberies and hurting other people, neither is my future wife. Think of how your future hubby will make of you as the mother of his kids to hear that you were a one night stander to earn certain things in your life, to learn that you touched the floor to scoop that position! Sies mann eewww; I rather die single or poor with happiness to myself and those next of me. Trying will be enough but rigging the system won’t bring equivalent joy to most lives.
SWEAT FOR IT; EARN IT; DESERVE IT; RESPECT & CONGRATULATE THE SELF!
How is it possible that you can look at the memory box of picture and see yourself in a regalia that you robbed yourself? That you sold a priceless non-replaceable part of your life to those in ‘power’. Ooh but because the morals turned into immortality for you, you might pride yourself for taking your down your panties down for the SAKE of it: That five minutes, “only three laps” for that moment only is capable of crashing your whole life and redirect it. This is temporary turning into unplanned permanent, contextually Lebronny refers to it as a Life Time event!
Shout to all those who graduated this Autumn and the past not forgetting those who are yet to grad. We can’t shame those who cheated the system, but reality will in the long run, hit the nerve. It will humbly humble you.
Remember: You’re doing it for your self; hence when you’re cheating the system, it’s embarrassingly become a secrete with hope that it’s never unknown. Remember those who are for righteous harmless beliefs are priding them and they get broadcasted; but the evil are hidden and believed to be exercised in the darkness. Take your soul as a belief or whatever religious phenomenon and ask yourself if you’d in any way opt to preach and practice it publicly in the light to do it during the night and be scared of shame that might emerge if darkness fades away suddenly.
Sleeping with bread and peanut butter is sure feels happier than waking up with “English” top notch breakfast with someone you indirectly sold your soul to. Someone you know you ain’t gonna see, call or introduce with pride unless they call you to come provide the services. They never cease to persuade- it’s not a trainsmash to them afterall, it’s a lifestyle. I swear those earrings dress ya ko Makuleng makes that woman whose boyfriend bought after budgeting for it, than that from Lacoste after being used as a temporary sexual object.
WORK FOR IT; EARN IT & DESERVE IT
DESERVE IT (wanting it before you afford it. Duma dilo txa batho); EARN IT(through shortcuts) & WORK FOR IT (nurse the embarrassment in the secret).
It’s a choice; it’s personal but no matter how modest we are about it to the external world, it remains with us and the Internal man in us!